The red flags are there—you’re just choosing to ignore them and your intuition, hoping against hope that if you stick it out, it will get better. Because it must? If you love him hard enough? No, in fact, it’s likely to only get worse. Much worse. If at least 5 of these 21 below are part of your dating experience, then you’re seeing an emotionally unavailable man. Best get out now, before you put another few weeks or months into a relationship that will only lead back to Square 1.
1. He mentions his ex-girl friend. A lot. Without asking him and very early on, you know her name, her major, where she lives or works, or any of the other myriad details that you shouldn’t really know about a girl you’re likely to never meet from a guy you just met.
2. He tells you he “has baggage.”
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